Monday, April 18, 2016

English vs Malay vs Rojak

Salam 1Malaysia.

Untuk pertama kalinya saya akan menulis blog ini dengan menggunakan Bahasa Melayu sepenuhnya untuk meluahkan pendapat saya berkenaan penulisan di media sosial. Baru-baru ini kecoh berkenaan penggunaan bahasa Inggeris sebagai bahasa perbualan dan ramai yang mencemuh dan ada juga yang bersikap positif berkenaan hal ini. Saya akui sebagai salah seorang penulis blog, saya juga turut menggunakan bahasa Inggeris, Melayu dan terlalu banyak bahasa rojak. Rojak yang dimaksudkan bukan sahaja campuran perkataan Inggeris dan Melayu malah saya juga turut mengunakan dialek Cina, Tamil dan Urdu walaupun tidak mahir. Bagi saya bahasa hanyala salah satu cara untuk kita berkomunikasi. Manusia yang wujudkan peraturan bahasa seperti tatabahasa tetapi dalam perbualan seharian yang penting adalah kita selesa untuk berkomunikasi dan setiap perkataan yang disebut dapat difahami oleh orang yang berkomunikasidengan kita. Isu utama kenapa kita perlu merendahkan mereka yang ingin berkomunikasi dalam bahasa Inggeris,Melayu, Mandarin atau Tamil sekalipun?. Adakah bila Melayu bercakap dengan Melayu kita perlu menggunakan bahasa Melayu sahaja? Cina hanya boleh bercakap Mandarin, Kantonis dan sebagainya?Manakala India hanya boleh bercakap bahasa Tamil,Urdu dan beberapa lagi bahasa yang mereka ada. Saya pernah ke sebuah kedai jualan pakaian Punjabi dan Saree untuk mencari baju sempena sambutan hari deepavali di tadika anak saya, terdapat sepasang pasangan Cina berbangsa Cina memasuki kedai tersebut dan mereka bercakap dalam bahasa rojak iaitu Melayu dan Inggeris dengan pemilik kedai tersebut iaitu berbangsa India. Apalah status yang akan dinaikkan di Facebook sekiranya mereka yang anti Melayu cakap Inggeris bila berada dalam situasi seperti ini?. Adakah statusnya akan berbeza daripada status mencemuh cikgu Melayu yang mengajar bahasa Inggeris bercakap Inggeris?. Apa yang saya lihat, status berbaur kebencian seperti ini sebenarnya adalah salah satu virus yang akan menakutkan masyarakat untuk berkomunikasi dengan lebih berkesan. Maksud saya, masyarakat akan teragak-agak untuk menggunakan bahasa lain dan ini akan menyekat kemahiran berbahasa kerana takut dengan cemuhan. Sepanjang dalam tempoh menyiapkan tulisan kajian saya dalam bahasa Inggeris, saya belajar memperbaiki penulisan saya supaya lebih baik dan saya melihat dengan penggunaan bahasa lain dalam perbualan dan penulisan meski hanya kemaskini status media sosial sebenarnya memberi kelebihan kepada masyarakat untuk meningkatkan kemahiran penggunaan bahasa kedua, ketiga atau keempat. Jangan cepat kecam orang kerana daripada satu jari menunding ke arah orang lain mungkin 10 jari yang lain akan menunding ke arah kita. Pembelajaran dan ilmu adalah proses sepanjang kehidupan kita. 

Pendapat Rakyat Biasa, Bukan Pekerja Berprofail Tinggi

Sunday, August 23, 2015

RM Hate Love Relationship

Yes..I know ..our currency right now not in lovely position but lets economist review about that..of course not from me..

RM, what I mean is rajin-malas relationship that I've been through in current situation....

Rauhah also realize that her Ibu little bit lazy and he start talked about it...Like our conversation last week...

Rauhah : Ibu...

Me        : Yes (while concentrate on my driving)

Rauhah : Why you not lipat kain.. See the basket ( sambil show with her hands try to give a picture how membukit baju-baju itu). I will help you. Lets lipat ok..

Me       : Ok.. Rauhah...(sigh)

Rauhah : And why you not cook..I want soup or chicken curry..Oh no..I want soup....Srupp Srupp like that.

Me       : Ok..Rauhah.. (again).



But surprisingly she totally different..

Me  : Rauhah, please go to sleep (what I mean take a nap because I want too)

Rauhah : No..

Me  : Rauhah, which one do you want? ( My skill to persuade her...Haha) Go to sleep or do some exercise?Choose...

Rauhah : Ok, I do the exercise ...

Me : Grrrrrrr.....

Whose gen  in her blood..?
Obviously..



Monday, May 18, 2015

Raid First Word

I always want my kids say my name first..But unfortunately, Rauhah and Raid start with call "Abah" rather than "Ibu " ...

Actually , I feel a little disappointing, but we cannot forces them right.. ... (sigh)...

The worst thing in this circumstances.. Raid call me "Abu" not "Ibu".....How dare you Raid make me feel so bad.. He scream my name "A..Buuu..A..Bu" ...Grrrr......

I always shout it back by "I..bu..not A..bu" and he without feel bad reply back to me by said " A...bu".

Raid..watch out..When you go to school someday..I will call you "Aiid baby boy..ala bucuk..bucuk" in front of your friends...Watch out dear...The day will come....









Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Dissertation Part 2



After being a while.....

I have many times met my SV... Actually in my case, my SV that always warn me about our meeting because I'm so busy ....( and sometimes I don't know what the things that make me busy with..) or just lazy to met her because I'm so sengal...

By the way,after last met, My SV want me to add 20 pages more...After depth conversations with her, her comment about my thesis...bla..bla...bla..I become more stressful after that, suddenly pimples show up around my face, my itchiness become worst and my bad habit by bite my own lips
 become ever worst than ever..Then without realize it, I started eat Jajan..Bring to my office and ate it..How stressful I am....

Master is not easy..and I cannot imagine how difficult to get a Phd.......OMG...


Now..I will back to my thesis..Write until the end .....Wish me luck with that.......

So to all my friends, start from Fuza, Ad, Jeanie, Ghiru, Mr Tan, Arif, Guan, Asrul & Roslan... Best of luck....

Monday, April 06, 2015

Short Story For Today =)


Last night, after chaos dinner (like usual) we watch ABPH.

Then, show up Sara Ali...

Me : Rauhah, look Che tau, Che tau (refer to movie Kami Histeria, dialog Fazura)

Rauhah : No..That's not Fazura..Fazura on Maharaja Lawak Mega..on Mega..Silap..(with her angry tone)

Husband & Me : Haaaaa..haaaaaa.........

As we know Rauhah really alert like a smoke alarm..If someone say wrong then that bising tone will come out....Hahahaha..she so..oo.. alert...even on entertainment..Okay..No TV show for a week Rauhah..Boooooo.....






Thursday, March 19, 2015

Coincidence Same Birthday

What a wonderful power of God when two people who are important in my life share the same birth date.

Adawiya..I met her 14 years ago as my roommate . She's a nice person, although sometimes she just to easy get  "sentap" but she also easy to forgive people. I am one who did not have many friends because I am not easy get along with people but with her, I can't believe that our friendship keep lasting until now. We almost messaging everyday (WhatApp), of course. She's the one of friends that not put any interest into relationship and without profit to gain.

Ratfi..My soul mate that I met 9 years ago. We know each other through online messenger . He suddenly say Hai and asked " How tall are you?". I never reply for stranger on YM because I just not interest. But, I don't know at that time I reply him and after that we keep YM each other and now he is my husband.

The magical happen because both of them share a same birth date. 19/03
One is my husband and the other one is my best friends...

They also share a certain same interest things that totally different with me at all...and sometimes I just have a feeling that I married with my best friends because of this common. Haha.. Just really insane..


Happy Birthday dear husband because totally patient with my attitude, emotion and behavior..Hahaha


Happy Birthday dear friends that keep friends with me even I'm not really socially type of person..Haha..




Wednesday, March 11, 2015

My Anger Management






I must admit that I have issues to control my anger. Lately, my life getting depress with environment around me. I just hate it so much and hate everything surround me except my kids.
I really want to escape from all of this. Don't get me wrong. Maybe because I'm not myself anymore and I cannot act and do what I wanted to do. I feel my life is fake. But no life is fake. That the real things that you need to live.

So today I decided to expressed my feeling . Typing so long sentences but as usually no answer.
Then I decided to ask opinion to my group best buddies . Then as usually get a lot of respond. Guess what, because they are a girl and You automatically can guess whose that " with no respond". (> _ <)

So I still need a girl in my life. I need a friends that can hear my problems. Shhh...I need girl more than boy. So next pregnancy let produce some girl.
Young lady, please bear and stay with me ...Huhuhu